Unfashionably Lesbian Focussed
Lesbian Dating sites and ‘Friends First’ I have been seeing a rash of the term ‘friends first’ on dating sites recently, and I am not even sure what that means. So… a person on a dating site wants to make friends with someone single that Read more
Why can’t we just all get along? I have a lot of close bi friends. I have dated bi women. I hear a lot about how bi women feel pressure to ‘prove’ their queerness and how they get the message that they are not legitimate, Read more
One of the things about the first heart-rending, eviscera stomping, soul draining lesbian breakup is that you don’t know at the time that it’s because its the first, and because heterosexism makes things worse at every point.
Lesbian culture is built on family – the families formed by women, their exes and their ex’s exes. Here’s how we maintain that network.
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Congratulations – you are facing something about yourself, something you might have suspected for a long time, and are ready to take action. Good for you!
STI risk charts are so so heteronormative! So I’ve summarized the information from the few resources I’ve found so you don’t have two weed through pages of info that focusses on straight, gay and bi sex, and doesn’t center lesbians.
models and internalized homophobia can make it difficult for women to let you know that they are interested in you. Here’s how to make it easier to tell.
Have you noticed that there are a lot of similarities between lesbian dating profiles for women over 40? I have a brain that finds patterns and here are the one’s I’ve found so far. Please note, these are composites and any similarities to specific humans Read more
My hope was that through the magic of science, I could figure out how to make good choices. How to find and love women who would be steady eddies, loving, stable, loyal, affectionate, and sexy as Xena to boot. Here’s what I learned, from this book (and a few others….), adapted here to be of help to single lesbians.